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That summer made my head spin!!!!

Catching up: Post #1!!!

                  I am not really sure where to start! This summer has been complete chaos in the McQuilkin household! With four children running around and one husband that never wants to sit still I have been completely exhausted. We started the summer with an immediate trip to the beach the day school was dismissed. We are so blessed to have the chance to spend so much time by the ocean! 

        As soon as we returned from that trip we were playing a little baseball and getting ready for a big reunion trip with our Ethiopian Adoption travel group in Branson, Mo.  We knew we were going, but had failed to look up the traveling distance until the week before. Wow, we were surprised, it was a 12 hour drive. The kids are troupers! They made it no problem. We were so excited to be reunited with all 6 families that had traveled to Ethiopia and met and brought our children home at the same time. I pray that we will be able to keep this connection throughout the years and the busy-ness of life! These children were all placed together in the House of Hope before our families were all united together. What a special bond these children will always share.  So here are a few pictures of all of the kiddos, getting to know all of the other siblings!

All of the families children, minus a few older siblings!

By the end of the photo shoot, all of these little guys were quite tired of posing for pictures. I have to tell you the matching t-shirts didn't exactly make us blend in with the crowd. It was an amazing testimony to other families that passed by and were curious what we were doing. Everyone in our group is amazing and more than willing to share with curious people. We explained that we were reuniting our children and people were touched that our families felt it important to keep this bond. 

We spent time going to silver dollar city, eating a Lambert's (a restaurant where they throw rolls at you), swimming and enjoying an indoor water park. The kids had a great time, and so did all of the adults, catching up on how life has changed since we met our sweet children almost one year ago. 

Mezzi and Khari enjoying the pool!

We have been able to catch up with the Freking family a few times in this past year, so our kids were already friends before arriving for this week!  It has been such a blessing, because our children are such similar ages, they get along great!

Max and Brennan pushing their sisters!

Before we left, we were all trying very hard to motivate Khari to walk, she was now aware that other babies her age were on the move (and not just on all four)!!

So, when we made it home from Branson, we were back to baseball season. Our team, The Phillies were in the playoffs! Max was so excited and nervous for this game!

 

We won in a very tight game, and the kids were so proud of their hard work with several players on vacation. It was one exciting baseball game!

Next thing you know we were on to tennis with Max. He was playing in a junior tennis league this summer and it was really fun to watch him play tennis with other kids his age. We knew he was good when he played with his daddy, but it was even more fun to see him play with other kids!

So that concludes part I of our summer update, the other two are back at school now, Samuel is asking for breakfast and I hear Khari waking up. I will try to catch up the rest in another one of my rare downtime moments!!!  Blessings!!!! 

Walking, sort of!!!!

I was just going crazy to share this liitle video with you!! Khari walked across the room in this video, but tonight she took 63 steps all on her own down our street! She is not a walker by choice yet, but hopefully that will come soon!

Summer craziness has begun!!!

It's official! School's out and the craziness of having all 4 children at home full time has arrived! Along with stomach bugs, colds and one sick momma. We had a rough start to this summer, but that won't hold us down. We are all feeling better and getting some travel going. We have been to the beach for almost a 2 week stay and back and I think Khari may prefer home. All her stuff is here and she just entertains herself better at home. Next up, we will be reuniting with our adoption group to get a look at how all of the other families are doing. It is hard to believe this time last summer we hadn't even met all of these people, but they are such a deep emotional part of the rest of our lives now!!!
        I am so excited!!!!
I am a little sad that Khari will not be walking for our trip, but hey, I have no right to be complaining, she has come a long way in a short period of time! She will definitely be in everyone's business, so I am not worried that she will be left out. She just seems younger to me since she travels every where on all fours, when most children her age are running by now.
 So heres a quick run down on what is going on in everyone's lives right now. Kent is almost relaxing as he is not teaching in the summer and finished his book a few months ago. When we got home from the beach, he had his first look at his published masterpeice! We are all so proud of him! In case you want to run out and buy a copy it is called, "Cinema 4d the artist's sourcebook, 3rd edition" by Kent McQuilkin!!

Max is finishing baseball season and going to play on a summer tennis league. He is excited. His daddy has had him on the tennis court since he started walking and he is pretty good!!! They said he could have been ranked in the state if he had started some tournaments before now. It is too late this year though...

Emma quit gymnastics and I think she is enjoying her free time. I am looking forward to getting her started in piano or voice lessons soon! She is so easy going, she is always happy!


 Samuel is finishing his first year of baseball and has really enjoyed it. He has started to notice towards the end of the season that his team in not winning. Maybe he will be my competitive child?? He is excited about starting kindergarten this fall :(
     Of course Khari bug!!! She is just crawling, climbing, cruising, around everywhere! It is hard for the older kids to find a safe spot to work on projects these days. I told them to go in their rooms and shut the door. They say,"it won't work, she will just follow me and bang on my door!" Pretty true! She would much more prefer to hang out with the kids, than the adults! She has a mouth full of teeth, including two bright and shiny new molars!! We are working hard on keeping water out of her ears this summer, since she had to have tubes placed in March. She is continuing to attend occupational and physical therapy once a week, but I am told she will be graduating before I know it! That will be weird! These people have become like family to me since bringing her home! Her therapist's are like aunts that spoil her with love! Hoping and praying that she will be walking around soon!!

So I will leave you with a few pics! And, if you wonder what I have been doing lately, see all of the above activities! No time for anything else these days, it is wonderful!

May 17th 2011, A year of full circle!

Last year at on May 17th I was celebrating our oldest child Max's 8th birthday. We were also anxiously awaiting the news of our 4th child. We had been waiting almost 12 months for a referral. Then, what do you know? Our beautiful baby girl popped into our lives on the waiting children page of our agency.

So, one year later and much more faithful and obedient to God, I can tell you that was an amazing day!!!

I was so confused! I thought we were just waiting on our call, but God had bigger plans. I can't imagine our lives without Khari, and I can't imagine it starting with her any other way. Max one year later has become a much more caring and accepting person. He absolutely adores Khari and she adores him! 9 years ago I could hardly imagine how my life was going to change when our first baby boy was born. If you had told me then how many blessings God would bestow on my family, I would never have believed you! She has given balance, character, patience, survival, more love than I could have imagined and spirit to our family. So to Max and Khari, happy one year later! I am so overwhelmed with blessings constantly because you two are in my life!

Guess who has their toes in the sand?

Khari is enjoying our spring break trip to the beach! Check out our 1st class sand eater!

Khari's story featured!!!

I finally spilled the whole story right onto my computer screen, in honor of possibly helping someone else on the journey to decide to adopt a waiting child or special needs child. If you follow the link you can read the whole thing for yourself! What a blessing to be involved in something like this! There are many inspiring stories of other families who have decided to adopt waiting children as well. Maybe you could be one of those people as well someday? 

Blessings! 

http://teamchase4andcounting.blogspot.com/2011/02/adopting-waiting-child-kharis-story.html